Now, I'm all about helping my friends out when I can, and I'd like to think that I could expect the same of them, but it seems like bad news if i'm the financially stable one considering everything i'm dealing with right now. I'm a little uneasy about loaning money to friends like this anyhow, it sets a bad precedent. This situation just makes me feel weird. It seems like I hear from this guy only every so often, and more and more lately when he needs or wants something. I loaned him a fairly good chunk of money a while back, while I still had my phat job, and he never really completely paid me back. I am afraid of being taken advantage of more than I am concerned about the money.
I guess that's sort of unfair... He did come and spend a couple of dreary days with me down in Santa Cruz while I was freaking out and stressing. He tends to be very understanding and accommodating when I need it, when few other people are. Money has recently become a pretty big deal for me, I guess.
Anyhow, I said yes, so I guess the moral of this story is that I'm an easy touch, yo.